HER - Lesbian Dating App

Contains adsIn-app purchases
4.3
47.6K reviews
1M+
Downloads
Content rating
PEGI 18
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About this app

Her is the biggest (and best!) app for lesbian, bisexual and queer women worldwide. Surround yourself with new awesome friends, go on dates, find local LGBTQ events or just chat away.

Her is the app you and our community were waiting for.


// HER IS:

* THE MOST POPULAR APP FOR LGBTQIA WOMEN. They're all on HER! Get to know every gay & bisexual woman you ever wanted to meet

* CRITICALLY-ACCLAIMED. Loved by critics, press and members alike

* BEAUTIFUL AND SIMPLY DESIGNED. Her feels right

* FRIENDLY. Be yourself and feel welcomed!

* MUCH MORE THAN DATING. Where you read news, find out what’s happening in your city, make friends and ask for advice.

* LOCAL. Meet women in your neighbourhood and attend local events

* GLOBAL. One huge worldwide community


// FEATURES:

* VERIFIED ACCOUNTS. No men, no fakes. Her is a safe space for our community. You know you’re talking to real people

* EASY SIGN-UP. Forget lame forms, use private one-click sign-up with Facebook or Instagram to get chatting

* LIKES. Send one to let her know you want to chat. Quick and no unwelcomed messages

* FRIENDS. Add your friends to stay in touch with them and always be able to message each other

* LOCAL MEMBERS. Use Meet to swipe through other users nearby

* POSTS. Ask a question to the community or tell everyone worldwide what you’re up to

* LINKS. Post, read, watch, listen and comment the coolest queer links and videos you’ve seen today

* QUEER EVENTS. Shared by the community in your area. Parties, meetups, festivals and more

* NOTIFICATIONS. Reply to every like, comment, match you’ve received

* RELATIONSHIP MODE. In a relationship? No problem. Let everyone know you’re only looking for friends and not dating


// ABOUT HER:

HER welcomes every female-identified and non-binary people aged 18+.

HER used to be known as Dattch.
Updated on
13 May 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

4.3
46.9K reviews
Emily Bunting
20 April 2025
I wanted to love this app. it has a lot of features outside of just dating. my issue is that the app swipes right when I dont want it to. I keep getting unwanted matches. If they could fix that feature, it would be my favorite lesbian dating app out of the ones I've tried. I just can't swipe without fearing that the app will make it go the wrong way. Edit: I have updated the app. It doesn't mis-swipe as much but it doesn't shuffle. I feel like I see the same people in the same order.
9 people found this review helpful
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HER App
17 April 2025
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback, Emily. Please try uninstalling and reinstalling the app to ensure that you have the updated version of HER. If you are still facing the same issue, please send us a message at support@weareher.com. We are happy to resolve this for you.
Kit Van Tassell
3 February 2025
The idea of getting into a dating app was honestly a bit distressing for me, but this one has turned out to be really good! I feel comfortable and don't dread opening messages or making matches like I do on other apps. People on here seem to care about what you are looking for, even if it's "just" friends, and I haven't encountered anyone creepy. I definitely recommend it!
150 people found this review helpful
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HER App
4 February 2025
This fills our queer hearts with joy and feels. Thanks for the feedback, Kit!🌈
Suzy Allen
7 February 2025
there are so many issues with this app that it is unbelievable, but i ignored it as there are issues with all of the apps. but they banned my account recently, and even after sending them the photo verification that they requested, I have not been reactivated and no one has reached out to me. ridiculous that they banned me instead of just asking me to verify in the first place. something about an automatic process to get rid of bots. I can't even log in to delete my data and my account.
111 people found this review helpful
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HER App
9 February 2025
Yikes! We'd love to get this sorted for you. Please send us a note at support@weareher.com with details

What's new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!