HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
4.3
47.4K reviews
1M+
Downloads
Content rating
PEGI 18
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About this app

Join over 13 million+ lesbian, bisexual, trans, and queer people on HER - the world's most loved dating app & platform for the LGBTQIA+ community. We believe that everyone has the right to love and be loved, find friends, form meaningful relationships in the LGBTQIA+ community.

HER started as a lesbian dating app built by and for lesbian & queer womxn. We evolved into an LGBTQIA+ platform for all colors of the rainbow. We are proud to say that now we are more than the 'swipe right' lesbian dating app. We want to be the best LGBTQ platform, and we are working hard to make it happen.

❤️ Dating – Experience the best online lesbian dating & meet queer folks from all over the world.
❤️ LGBTQ+ News Feed – Share the most urgent and fantastic news about the LGBTIQ+ community.
❤️ Communities – Join smaller community group chats based on interests or hobbies.
❤️ Parties – the HER team hosts parties in 15 cities worldwide (from London to LA). Find out when the next one is near you and get exclusive discounts on tickets.

At its heart, HER is a free dating app for lesbians and LGBTQ+ people. All the app's core features are entirely free, so finding your person or your community is accessible for everyone. With the free app version, you can add friends, view profiles, start chats, view events, and join communities.

There's also paid subscription offering even more great features.
– Ad-free experience
– See who's online in real-time
– Additional search filters
– Incognito mode
– And many more!

Download HER to join a community of people who believe in LGBTQ+ equality and empowerment. Whether you're here for a girlfriend or partner, someone for a great date, or your next friendship group, the HER community is a welcoming and supportive one.

HER is a place where you can be authentical, whether you're lesbian, bi, queer, non-binary, a transgender woman, a transgender man, or gender non-conforming. It's your safe harbor where everyone can be their true self.

Contrary to what you might think, HER is a safe and inclusive place to date and chat for all queer people. While it started as a lesbian dating app, it has evolved into a platform for LGBTQIA+ people. Cis women, trans women, trans men, non-binary people, and gender non-conforming people are all welcome. Share your story, discover local events, join the community and live your best life!

HER is somewhere that all the other colors of the rainbow can unite.

❤️ Find out more: ❤️
https://weareher.com/
@hersocialapp
Updated on
May 8, 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

4.3
46.7K reviews
Emily Bunting
April 20, 2025
I wanted to love this app. it has a lot of features outside of just dating. my issue is that the app swipes right when I dont want it to. I keep getting unwanted matches. If they could fix that feature, it would be my favorite lesbian dating app out of the ones I've tried. I just can't swipe without fearing that the app will make it go the wrong way. Edit: I have updated the app. It doesn't mis-swipe as much but it doesn't shuffle. I feel like I see the same people in the same order.
5 people found this review helpful
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HER App
April 17, 2025
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback, Emily. Please try uninstalling and reinstalling the app to ensure that you have the updated version of HER. If you are still facing the same issue, please send us a message at support@weareher.com. We are happy to resolve this for you.
Kit Van Tassell
February 3, 2025
The idea of getting into a dating app was honestly a bit distressing for me, but this one has turned out to be really good! I feel comfortable and don't dread opening messages or making matches like I do on other apps. People on here seem to care about what you are looking for, even if it's "just" friends, and I haven't encountered anyone creepy. I definitely recommend it!
141 people found this review helpful
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HER App
February 4, 2025
This fills our queer hearts with joy and feels. Thanks for the feedback, Kit!🌈
Suzy Allen
February 7, 2025
there are so many issues with this app that it is unbelievable, but i ignored it as there are issues with all of the apps. but they banned my account recently, and even after sending them the photo verification that they requested, I have not been reactivated and no one has reached out to me. ridiculous that they banned me instead of just asking me to verify in the first place. something about an automatic process to get rid of bots. I can't even log in to delete my data and my account.
104 people found this review helpful
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HER App
February 9, 2025
Yikes! We'd love to get this sorted for you. Please send us a note at support@weareher.com with details